feat(config): optional TOML config loading behind config-file feature

A file-based way to set tuning knobs without recompiling. urus is a
library, so it never presumes a config path or reads the environment — the
binary hands the text in:

- Config::with_toml_str(&str) -> Result<Config, ConfigError>: sparse overlay
  onto an existing Config (built with the addr the binary chose). Only keys
  present are applied; durations are integer seconds; unknown keys are a
  hard error (deny_unknown_fields) so a typo is loud, not a silent no-op.
- Scope: the four slowloris knobs (head_timeout_secs, body_timeout_secs,
  body_burst_bytes, body_stall_timeout_secs). Migrating the rest of Config
  into the file is a separate, additive job — TomlOverrides just grows.
- Feature `config-file = ["dep:serde", "dep:toml"]`; the optional serde dep
  gains the derive feature. The default build is unchanged (deps + code are
  all gated).
- examples/serve_toml.rs (required-features = ["config-file"]): a `--config
  PATH` demo with no presumed default location. plain_serve and its env
  vars are left untouched.

Tests (feature-gated): empty keeps defaults, partial overrides only named,
full overrides all, unknown key errors, malformed errors. 84 lib with the
feature / 79 without; clippy --lib clean both ways; e2e smoke serves 200
from a file and rejects an unknown key loudly.

src/lib.rs

@@ -44,3 +44,5 @@ pub use ws::{Message, WsClosed, WsHandler, WsSender};
 pub use serve::{
     serve, serve_with, serve_with_shutdown, shutdown_handle, Config, Handle, ShutdownSignal,
 };
+#[cfg(feature = "config-file")]
+pub use serve::ConfigError;