feat(safety): phase 5 — loom model checking + invariant audit/assertion sweep

State machine extracted to src/slot_state.rs as a standalone unit (StateWord:
publish_queued / try_claim / yield_return / park_return / unpark / set_done /
reclaim, plus the Status view for cold paths). runtime.rs keeps the protocol
rationale and consumes the mechanism; every transition self-asserts its
precondition per the assert-the-invariants rule.

src/sync_shim.rs: std vs loom indirection (atomics + UnsafeCell with the
with/with_mut access API) for the two loom-modeled modules. Loom models run
the PRODUCTION code, not a replica:
- slot_state: no-lost-wakeup (park vs unpark), two-unparkers-one-enqueue,
  stale-unpark-never-hits-reused-slot (the ABA theorem), unpark-vs-claim.
- run_queue: mpmc exactly-once through a lap wraparound, push/pop race,
  striped two-producer drain.
RUSTFLAGS="--cfg loom" cargo test --lib --release — 7 models, all pass.
RawMutex deliberately not loom-modeled (futexes can't be; textbook mutex3
with stress + unwind coverage).

Assertion sweep (invariants now checked at the point of reliance):
- enqueue debug-asserts the word reads EXACTLY (gen, Queued) — the
  at-most-once-enqueued invariant the ring capacity proof leans on.
- RawMutex enforces the leaf rule mechanically: debug-build thread-local
  held-count, panics at the acquisition that violates it.
- live_actors underflow (double finalize) asserted.
- StateWord transition preconditions asserted (yield/park/done/reclaim/
  publish/claim).

Audit: with_runtime, RawMutex guards, run-queue ops, and trace::record all
gate preemption (and thereby the stop sentinel) for their span; trace was
already self-gating. Sole remaining exception is the channel std MutexGuard
— the documented first post-v0.5 fast-follow.

Review fixes to the branched-in work:
- slot_state::status_for mapped (matching gen, Vacant) to Stale instead of
  unreachable!: Pid::new is public, so a forged/never-issued pid (e.g.
  monitor(Pid::new(5,0)) on a fresh slab) could reach it — "no such actor"
  is the correct total answer; issued pids still can't get there.
- Tightened enqueue's assert from Status::Live to the exact (gen, Queued)
  word its own comment argues for.

Validated: 22 suites in debug (all asserts + leaf counter live) for
rq-mutex/rq-mpmc/rq-striped, release for rq-mutex, smarm-trace build +
stress, loom 7/7.

src/lib.rs

@@ -27,6 +27,8 @@ pub mod link;
 pub mod gen_server;
 pub mod runtime;
 pub(crate) mod raw_mutex;
+pub(crate) mod slot_state;
+pub(crate) mod sync_shim;
 #[doc(hidden)] // pub only so benches/rq_micro.rs can drive the raw structures
 pub mod run_queue;
 pub mod trace;