feat(cluster): RFC 010 c10–c16, follow-ups and Phase 6 (squash of 16ef583..d9c62a8)

Tree snapshot of d9c62a8 (2026-08-18). The 20 source commits between
16ef583 (c9) and d9c62a8 were never pushed and the clone that held them
was lost; this commit carries their combined tree verbatim so the build
history stays auditable from the c1–c9 commits below it. Original
hashes as recorded in the session handoff:

  c10  f03e94d  pid targeting + auto-serialization (RemotePid, D14 name
                on the wire); Phase 3 gate
  c11  7ef4bad  DownReason::Disconnected, wire tag 5
  c12  d124162  remote monitors (Monitor/Demonitor/Down frames)
  c13  9de967b  connection-loss synthesis (A+B: Monitors::teardown +
                unread-command Disconnected); Phase 4 gate
  c14  7e822b7  eager pg eviction (reaper actor, ReaperInboxes)
       dbe1a22  InboundVerdict::label(), trace::Event::ClusterInbound
       31a9877  tests/channel.rs monitor-churn target gated on `go`
       653559e  Discovery::Withdrawn{name, addr}
  c15  b41d76e  distributed pg: Sync on NodeUp, Join/Leave broadcast,
                NodeDown sweep, members_all; PgMsg wire type
  c16  fafa881  pick_any / dispatch_any; Phase 5 complete
  Phase 6 Tier A:
       195c73e  p4  NodeEvent::NodeDown(NodeInfo)
       48fd766  p1  connector Candidate{name, addr, state}
       ce8cf99  p2+p7 conn.rs select arms as Vec<Arm>; Outbound::Drained
       bf24988  p6  RemotePid::from_local -> Option
       9ae0380  p3  PeerStanding{Free, Claimed, Dialing}
       c7d62a1  p11 cluster::Timing knobs, threaded by value
       46f171d  p11 cluster_disconnect un-ignored on SMARM_FAST_TIMING
  Phase 6 Tier B:
       391a9ae  p5  cluster::RemoteDownReason{Local, Disconnected};
                    DownReason::Disconnected removed from core
       7ddd908  p9  pg ctl channel unconditional, one cfg seam at spawn
       d9c62a8      PeerNameMismatch parks the candidate; ClusterDial trace

Verified at d9c62a8: default 361/0, cluster 448/0, clippy --lib on
default / cluster / cluster+smarm-trace, fmt, 10x flake on
cluster_dial_mismatch, 5x on cluster_pg.

tests/cluster_conn_lifecycle.rs

@@ -21,6 +21,7 @@ use smarm::cluster::manager::{Call, Manager, Reply, MANAGER};
 use smarm::cluster::spawn_established;
 use smarm::cluster::transport::tcp::TcpTransport;
 use smarm::cluster::transport::{Conn, FramedConn, Transport};
+use smarm::cluster::Timing;
 use smarm::gen_server::{self, GenServerBuilder};
 use smarm::pg::Incarnation;
 use smarm::{run, sleep};
@@ -81,8 +82,10 @@ fn connection_up_commanded_shutdown_and_eof_all_reflected_in_table() {
 
         // Manage the `a` ends as peers node-b and node-c; keep the `b` far ends
         // open so neither socket is closed from the far side yet.
-        spawn_established(FramedConn::new(a1), peer("node-b")).expect("node-b registers");
-        spawn_established(FramedConn::new(a2), peer("node-c")).expect("node-c registers");
+        spawn_established(FramedConn::new(a1), peer("node-b"), Timing::default())
+            .expect("node-b registers");
+        spawn_established(FramedConn::new(a2), peer("node-c"), Timing::default())
+            .expect("node-c registers");
 
         // Up: both connections register and the table shows them.
         wait_peers(&["node-b", "node-c"]);