`monitor(pid) -> Receiver<Down>` lets any actor watch any other and
receive a single Down{pid, reason} when it terminates. Generalizes the
existing single supervisor_channel (which is just a hard-wired monitor
the parent installs at spawn).
- src/monitor.rs: Down / DownReason{Exit,Panic,NoProc} + monitor().
Payload-free: a panic payload has one owner and goes to the joiner via
JoinError, so monitors learn only that it panicked. Monitoring an
already-gone pid yields NoProc immediately.
- runtime: Slot grows `monitors: Vec<Sender<Down>>`; finalize_actor
drains and notifies them outside the shared lock (send can unpark a
receiver, which re-takes the non-reentrant mutex). Cleared in
reclaim_slot and on slot reuse at spawn.
- Registration and finalize both serialize on the shared mutex, so a
target alive at registration always delivers a real Down (no race
between liveness check and registration).
tests/monitor.rs: Exit, Panic, NoProc-on-dead-target, and fan-out to
multiple monitors. Full suite green.
